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Mending Minds

You've probably heard it a hundred times: Weight loss surgery (WLS) is not brain surgery. We enter into our new lives with the same mental and emotional qualities we had before surgery -- for better or worse. To achieve a lasting recovery with WLS, attending to your mental and emotional health is vital. Here you will find articles to help you identify and work on the things that can trip you up as you travel your WLS jouney.

The "Death-by-Olives" Strategy
Katie Jay
This minor event, kicked off an evening I wouldn't want to repeat anytime soon. Avoiding alcohol, birthday cake, brownies, and other treats at a boisterous party is, for me, a stressful task. . . . keep reading
Now You Can Maintain Your Weight Loss and Be at Peace with Your Life
Katie Jay
Spend some time thinking about what opportunities your problems afford you. Maybe you can use a problem to grow emotionally, or to develop a character trait like courage. . . . keep reading
How to Fill the Food Void
Katie Jay
The deep longing has lessened, but it is not gone. And after weight loss surgery, I have lost my most reliable tool for filling the void -- overeating. Here is how I have worked on this issue in my life. . . . keep reading
Transfer of Addiction after Weight Loss Surgery -- or --How I Lost 230 Pounds and Gained $20,000 Worth of Debt
Dr. Marcy Rosensweig Levitt
Transfer of Addiction after Weight Loss Surgery -- or --How I Lost 230 Pounds and Gained $20,000 Worth of Debt As a child, food was comfort and gifts were rewards. If my sister and I were sad we would be taken shopping or given a cookie. In my child's mind I equated food and shopping as comforts, highs. In retrospect, these were the beginnings of my addictions. . . . keep reading
How to Defeat Your Dark Side Without a Fight
Katie Jay
How to Defeat Your Dark Side Without a Fight Once inside the cave, despite his true desire to resist the dark side, Luke draws his light saber. He is unable to resist the temptation to engage his enemy in battle. Likewise, are you battling food temptations? . . . keep reading
How to Save Yourself
Katie Jay
How to Save Yourself Have you ever felt like you were in a churning sea of challenges? Getting tossed around by events that you felt powerless to control? Did you feel so discouraged you sought comfort in food or other compulsive behaviors? What else could you have done? . . . keep reading
The Mourning After
Katie Jay
The Mourning After Weight loss surgery is the beginning of many losses -- ultimately for the good. But it's big adjustment, until you realize a new day has dawned. . . . keep reading
Balancing Your Life After WLS
Katie Jay
Most of us have struggled all our lives with obesity. We are like the notorious character Sisyphus from Greek mythology, who was forced to push a boulder up a steep hill, only to have the boulder come tumbling down again once he'd gotten it to the top. . . . keep reading
Who Will You Be?
Katie Jay
Who Will You Be? After WLS you change so quickly, it's hard to hang onto your self image. You don't look like you used to look, you can do different things, you feel different, and people treat you differently (at least some of them). So, who are you? Do you know? Maybe the better question is who will you be? . . . keep reading
Are You Drowning?
Katie Jay
Are You Drowning? Sometimes, no matter how much we don't want to, we have to shine the light of reality on the behaviors that have an impact on our weight. The time to do this is before we have a significant weight regain. . . . keep reading
Is Your Brain Making You Eat?
Katie Jay
According to Dave Krueger, MD, Professional Coach, repetition of behavior is comforting because it's secure and familiar, and we like to know what to expect. He says we substitute familiarity for happiness. Does that describe you? . . . keep reading
How Much Weight Loss Is Enough?
Katie Jay
How Much Weight Loss Is Enough? A common attitude for many weight loss surgery patients is: "My surgeon said I should weigh 150 pounds, but I want to weigh 135 -- the weight I was when I graduated from high school." Have you chosen a goal weight? Is it realistic? Should you even have a goal weight? . . . keep reading
Are you obsessing about food?
Katie Jay
I am working with a coaching client who had put on about 30 extra pounds since reaching her weight-loss-surgery goal. To tackle her weight-gain problem, she decided to start recording what she eats. . . . keep reading
Emotional Eating Is a Mystery and You're the Ace Detective
Katie Jay
Treat your emotions as mysteries to be solved; they are useful clues. Here's how. . . . keep reading
And the Oscar for the "Best Actor in a Supporting Role" in a Weight Loss Surgery Drama Goes to...
Mike Jay
If my wife's weight loss surgery journey were a movie, I would be nominated for Best Supporting Actor, hands down. . . . keep reading
Shaping Your New Life: Your Circle of Influence
Katie Jay
I am learning that to shape a better life for myself. I know I need to take care of myself, but that includes taking care of my responsibilities to others. . . . keep reading
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